"It's All My Fault": Responding to Patient Self-Blame in Serious Illness Care.
John Wagner, Terra Solove, Julia H Vermylen et al.
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Case in brief
A 61-year-old woman with metastatic rectal cancer attended a palliative care visit to discuss imaging that showed disease progression. After taking in the news, she said that her illness was harming her family and that it was all her fault. The team considered how to respond. The case highlights the risk of moving too quickly to reassure her that she had done nothing wrong; instead, the discussion emphasizes acknowledging the emotion and exploring what underlies it.
Diagnostic / clinical pearl
When a patient expresses self-blame, avoid reflexively correcting or reassuring. Acknowledge the emotion and explore its origins to better understand the patient’s concerns and priorities.
Why it matters
Self-blame can be difficult for clinicians to hear, but trying to quickly resolve it may dismiss the patient’s distress and limit understanding of what matters to them.